Monday, January 26, 2009

You aggravate ME!!!!

So why are WE never attracted to the people that are attracted to us the most?? So have you ever had a guy/girl like you a lot? But because he/she was not your " CUP OF TEA" How do we explain to people without hurting his/her feelings that we are not attracted to them?

So one of good friends and I were talking the other day, and she was explaining to me about this guy who had a serious love interest in her.For some reason she was not attracted to anything about him. I met the guy and thought he was GREAT for her. I cannot live other peoples lives.. Therefore it really didn't matter what I thought because she was the one who had to date this guy.

Do looks play a major part in a persons mind, when he/she is deciding
whether or not they want to pursue a relationship with this individual? Are we as people shallow when it comes to relationships? Should we look beyond all of the Pet Peeves that have been broken, and all the aggravating things this individual has said, and done? Personally ignorance plays a key factor in why I Can Become Aggravated with a Person.... Well I am curious in what others think about Looks, personality, and pet Peeves.

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  2. Physical attraction plays a major role in whether or not an individual would even consider entering a relationship with someone. A lot of people PRETEND that they aren't shallow and that they're looking for someone who is goal-oriented, loyal, affectionate, faithful Christian man with a sense of humor, when in actuality, they aren't willing to give the person a chance unless they are physically attracted (or in some cases, they aren't attracted unless the person's bank account is LARGE, but that's a totally different subject!) A lot of people bitch and moan about finding "MR. RIGHT" when in some cases, the right one for them is staring right in their face. Beauty fades, people need to stop setting such high standards, unless they want to be lonely and miserable. -JFREEMAN.

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