Ok this is a topic that is minimally being spoken about. People are not speaking to young ladies about the type of realtionships that are healthy to be in. Love does not equal being slapped kicked, or punched. Regardless of how much money he is giving you. SO many women cross over is what I call it. It is when you date a man because of his money. When you cross over to dating a man because he has money and your being a GOLD DIGGER you are vulnerable to a whole new world that you are not used to.
Of course the fame, the money, the bling it all looks and seems good. But is it worth getting your ass whooped over every night? I am sure there are some drug dealers, athletes, and rappers who do not beat their girls or side chicks. But it does happen. These men are well aware what you are after. The money signs gleam through your eyes, trust me men are no fool when it comes to gold digging women. Therefore he feels it is no problem to hit you when you get out of line. This man knows if you walk away tomorrow you got him for his money. So women stay in these unhealthy relationships, because " He Loves ME" which is not true, because if he loved you so much he would never put his hands on you.
Why isn't anyone talking to these young girls about these type of relationships? Why is it being accepted? How do we save our sistas, who can be soo much more? There are plenty of men out there who are loving and caring. And that does not mean he has to put his hands on you. Ladies be more observant, and watch the signs, so you can make sure you are not ever going to subjected to this type of relationship.
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