I moved...

I have officially relocated back to Connecticut.. Forgive me for not blogging as often as I should, I have hectic days. I am volunteering and doing some other work.  I currently cannot complain about life. I am enjoying my life, and I am living it to the fullest. I am trying to take advantage of every opportunity that comes my way. You never know why certain things happen the way they do. I am learning to no longer ask  questions. I am becoming a "go with the flow" girl! I have not decided if that is good or bad.  I hope it is a good thing. Of course if you know me I do not flow with stupid ish. Sensible decisions are the only decisions that I make!!! 

 It has suddenly hit me that my peers have either gone back to undergrad, or has started their first week of graduate courses.  It is an interesting feeling not currently being in school. Well, I have moved on from that period in my life. I am over the fact that I am currently not in graduate school. I refuse to continue to dwell on it. What is that going to do for me?? The next couple of months of my life I am going to look into who I am and what I want to do. And what is going to make me happy. I am excited and ready for what is next!!!!  Life is what you make it... I am in my prime, I have not really started yet. Enjoy your life and live it to the fullest. 

You Did What?

We all have so many skeletons in our closet. We all have secrets that we would never tell maybe our best friend. In todays society people are doing just about anything to get  by in this world. I believe I have written on this topic once before, but this time I am going to go more in depth. 

Love is a beautiful thing, it is made for two people to enjoy, have trials, and ups and downs. When do you tell your significant other about your past? Or do you keep your past to yourself? Is it ok to tell this person about things you "tried" in college? Or should you keep this to yourself? Or if you keep it to yourself are you not being honest with your significant other? When is telling too much too much? Where does one draw the line? 

How do you know if your significant other is hiding things from the past, that you know nothing about? Would you be mad if you found out? Its the past,  why get mad??? 

i want your opinions............